Cattitude: Every Tuesday In The Pittsburgh Post-Gazette
Hi Cat,
I want to chime in on the sex-less couple question. It doesn’t matter that they’re gay, it doesn’t matter that they have a house, none of that matters. If people have NO sex at all with each other, that’s a big problemo. She says that she’s sure her girlfriend isn’t cheating but you can never be 100% sure. I’m not saying it’s definitely the reason but she could be cheating in her mind and the woman wouldn’t know it. All I can say is, if gay couples aren’t having sex either then they should be allowed to get married because that’s proof they’re just like almost everyone else I know who’s married. Thanks for letting me chime. BTW I’m a 38 yr old man in a fully sexual straight relationship but I still feel kind of sorry for that woman. Every woman deserves to be treated with respect. See ya.
Cat:
I write to strongly disagree with your advice today. I am the parent of 4 adult sons. I don’t support your viewpoint at all. I don’t believe in living together without marriage or premarital sex for that matter. Your advice is disrespectful to those of us who feel as we do. Many adult children are not financially independent but feel they can shove their lifestyle down the throats of their parents. I also notice that young adults feel they can say anything they want about everything but when their parents state their opinions, are often labeled out of town with the times. How refreshing it would be if you turn out to be different.

